USFS letter to adult skaters

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This letter raises questions. What happened, and where? :sekret:

Open Letter to Adult Skaters Regarding Conduct at Competitions

Promoting Respect, Sportsmanship and Community at Figure Skating Events


Dear Adult Skaters,

As our skating community continues to grow in diversity and experience, competitions are a vibrant gathering where athletes from all walks of life come together to share their passion. Whether you are a seasoned competitor or new to the ice, your presence shapes the atmosphere and culture of every event.

Competitions are not just about athletic performance — they are about fostering a supportive environment where everyone feels welcome and respected. Your conduct, both on and off the ice, sets a standard for others and leaves a lasting impression on fellow skaters, coaches, officials and spectators.

This level of respect is a multi-way street between the skaters, officials, event organizing committee, volunteers and the spectators who attend to support you and your fellow competitors. If any part of this equation is removed, then the competitions that we know and love will cease to exist. No skaters = no competition. No officials = no competition. No organizing committee/volunteers = no competition.

The organizing committee spends countless hours behind the scenes putting together a competition that appears seamless. Officials invest years of their own time and thousands of dollars of their own money honing their craft to be knowledgeable in the nuances of every discipline of the sport. Skaters spend countless hours in cold, dark arenas perfecting programs and elements.

Negative comments about any aspect of an event, including the judging or work done by volunteers, are felt by those they are addressed to and produce a negative impact on the broader spectrum of these events. Whether this is the first event or last event of the season, respect and sportsmanship are paramount.

So, I say this with a note of caution. Please be mindful of your actions – what you say, what you post and how you conduct yourself on and off the ice. By demonstrating exemplary conduct, you help build a welcoming, enthusiastic and respectful skating community.

As adult skaters, we should strive to show the love that brings each of us to the rink. I know that everyone loves the ice, and the camaraderie is visible. You are a credit to a sport built on individuals that show up and support each other – cheering successes, holding hands in defeat and encouraging each other when the ice becomes a bit too slippery.

Thank you for your commitment to this wonderful sport. Together, we can make every competition a celebration of achievement, friendship and the enduring joy of skating.

Sincerely,

Ian Macadam
Adult Skating Committee Chair
 
Reading between the lines, it sounds like there were negative comments online about either the judging or the organization of Adult Nationals. I wasn't at AN and I don't really follow any of the adult skating FB groups, so I don't know any specifics, just guessing.
 
The mention of "what you post" suggests that maybe negative things were being said on the socials.
 
From a Google/AI search:

The social media drama at the 2026 U.S. Adult Figure Skating Championships in Atlanta involved former RuPaul's Drag Race contestant Dan "Milk" Donigan. After placing 8th and receiving scores he disagreed with, Donigan took to social media to vent and subsequently withdrew from the remainder of his events. [1, 2, 4, 5]
The situation caused a stir online, primarily dividing the figure skating community. While many fans enjoy the personality and celebrity that notable skaters like Donigan bring to the ice, competitors and purists pushed back. Many in the Adult Nationals scene—a largely volunteer-run event that attracts hundreds of highly dedicated year-round athletes—criticized the outburst as poor sportsmanship, arguing that all skaters receive frustrating scores from time to time and should keep grievances off public platforms. [1, 4]

ETA: I suspect this is the social media post that triggered the letter. https://www.reddit.com/r/RPDRDRAMA/...ig_and_milky_has_had_it_at_us_figure_skating/
 
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There were some other things going on there in regard to transgendered adult skaters. The author of the adult corner in the skating magazine had featured that month transgendered skaters, and between the editor approval and the actual publishing of the magazine, apparently the article was changed. (I have no reason to disbelieve her.) She was not happy and there were Facebook posts about that (which I shared) and I believe on-site information as well. I was not there.

So there could absolutely be reaction on the part of that skater based on that.

Still doesn’t excuse social media trashing of the judges or of the host club (if trashing the host club happened). Is it possible that there’s a judge out there with a bias against transgender (or overweight or <insert your race>) skaters? Sure. IMO that would be an extreme minority in this day and age.

Solo ice dance isn’t gendered (same with synchro). As an FYI.
 
He's also known for being iconically delusional. After he was on Drag Race the first time, he became a fashion industry darling and modeled for some very big brands. Seems to have inflated his ego, and he quickly fell out of favor with the brands. He's actually competed in drag.

Reading between the lines, it sounds like there were negative comments online about either the judging or the organization of Adult Nationals. I wasn't at AN and I don't really follow any of the adult skating FB groups, so I don't know any specifics, just guessing.
Some of this certainly refers to the post discussed above (especially given said skater withdrew after the 8th place segment - and the 8th place was fair given he fell), I'm sure there's other drama to be accounted for.
 
Interesting thread.

I am surprised they haven't been suspended under the USFSA Code of Conduct


I will exhibit the highest standards of fairness, ethical behavior and genuine good sportsmanship in all of my relations with others.

I will conduct myself in a manner not detrimental to the welfare of figure skating. I understand that my actions reflect on U.S. Figure Skating and the sport of figure skating both positively and negatively. I understand that if my acts, statements, or conduct are considered detrimental to the welfare of figure skating by the appropriate authority, I may be subject to penalties imposed by U.S. Figure Skating pursuant to GR 1.04.

They may have been given a warning which has not been made public. But also saying to the rest of the community that this behaviour is not acceptable.
 
Interesting thread.

I am surprised they haven't been suspended under the USFSA Code of Conduct






They may have been given a warning which has not been made public. But also saying to the rest of the community that this behaviour is not acceptable.
In the results it looks like the person in question was an independent skater with no club affiliation. That might make things a bit difficult.
 
In the results it looks like the person in question was an independent skater with no club affiliation. That might make things a bit difficult.
Hmmm wouldn't they have to be a member of the USFSA to compete? Can one of the US people be able to help.

I assume they could still be banned or sanctioned regardless of affiliation by the USFSA under the Code of Conduct.
 
USFS has a category for individual membership. From its website:

"Membership is available directly through U.S. Figure Skating for individuals who wish to participate, stay connected, or be involved in the sport without the additional programs and benefits offered through a local club."

The benefits of membership include being able to compete in USFS sanctioned events.

I think, although I could be wrong, that this category was set up to accommodate skaters who were in regions where there might be an ice rink but not enough skaters/members to form a club.
 

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