LeafOnTheWind
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So the topic of how to write romance in non-romance genres came up elsewhere and I've been thinking a lot about it since. My response was simply don't. Because when you stop to think about it, is there really any non-romance genre without some sort of sexual/romantic relationship?
I tend to watch non-romance exclusively with the occasional rom-com because most of the romance story lines make it sound like being single is the worst possible state of being. If I do watch a rom-com it tends to be movies like The Proposal with Ryan Reynolds and Sandra Bullock where they weren't actively looking to date. They just kind of happen to realize they love each other. The non-romance genres really don't have single characters but at least don't spend the majority of the story on the romance/dating aspects. If single characters exist, they tend to be supporting roles and are often the least human characters in the case of Sci-Fi and Fantasy.
I can't really think of any "datable" lead role that was just simply single and wasn't trying to hookup for a night, long-term relationship or thinking about starting a relationship. It would be nice to hear about an anti "When Harry met Sally" where the dating prospects are simply friends, coworkers, etc. If you can think of any "datable" single lead characters that are simply just being single and getting on with the story I would like to know.
I am excluding buddy type movies/books or other similar story lines because they aren't meant to date. I am specifically looking for roles that would normally be written as coupling up and refreshingly did not. I expect this to be a very, very short list if it exists at all.
I tend to watch non-romance exclusively with the occasional rom-com because most of the romance story lines make it sound like being single is the worst possible state of being. If I do watch a rom-com it tends to be movies like The Proposal with Ryan Reynolds and Sandra Bullock where they weren't actively looking to date. They just kind of happen to realize they love each other. The non-romance genres really don't have single characters but at least don't spend the majority of the story on the romance/dating aspects. If single characters exist, they tend to be supporting roles and are often the least human characters in the case of Sci-Fi and Fantasy.
I can't really think of any "datable" lead role that was just simply single and wasn't trying to hookup for a night, long-term relationship or thinking about starting a relationship. It would be nice to hear about an anti "When Harry met Sally" where the dating prospects are simply friends, coworkers, etc. If you can think of any "datable" single lead characters that are simply just being single and getting on with the story I would like to know.
I am excluding buddy type movies/books or other similar story lines because they aren't meant to date. I am specifically looking for roles that would normally be written as coupling up and refreshingly did not. I expect this to be a very, very short list if it exists at all.