I hate to say it but I think we are too. Americans IMO have no real clue what war is like.
We haven’t had a war on our soil since the Civil War. We have never experienced a mass bombings on our soil. Isolated events but mass events no?
So we sit here in relative comfort and just send our troops places and our bombs places with no real clue about the consequences that we bring. Or the chaos. And then we get tired of it and leave.