gkelly
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I think what's happening is that all of a sudden women (and some men) are speaking up publicly about all sorts of behavior that they have endured in the past and didn't feel they could speak about.
Some of that behavior was criminal. Some was just insensitive. Some was part of a pattern of abuse of power. Some were isolated incidents. Some was recent. Some took place decades ago, when awareness of these issues was much lower and there was a more forgiving attitude to "boys will be boys" type of behavior and "locker room talk" etc.
The accusations involving famous people make the news.
I would tend to believe the people who are speaking out. But I would also tend to want to hear what the accused have to say for themselves, whether they recognize that they were wrong and have already changed their behavior or are prepared to do so now, and to apologize.
And evaluate each accusation according to level of severity before deciding what kinds of consequences would be appropriate.
It's up to the accusers to decide whether they will accept an apology or whether punitive justice of some sort is in order.
Some of that behavior was criminal. Some was just insensitive. Some was part of a pattern of abuse of power. Some were isolated incidents. Some was recent. Some took place decades ago, when awareness of these issues was much lower and there was a more forgiving attitude to "boys will be boys" type of behavior and "locker room talk" etc.
The accusations involving famous people make the news.
I would tend to believe the people who are speaking out. But I would also tend to want to hear what the accused have to say for themselves, whether they recognize that they were wrong and have already changed their behavior or are prepared to do so now, and to apologize.
And evaluate each accusation according to level of severity before deciding what kinds of consequences would be appropriate.
It's up to the accusers to decide whether they will accept an apology or whether punitive justice of some sort is in order.