I thought we were done with this. I put it on the Board Business for a reason. The "gift" was taken away and given to someone else.
I wasn't reading these responses anymore, but I just figured out what you meant - about my cousin buying me a DVD 6-7 years ago. I don't watch anything on my computer. I can't sit up in this chair that long. I didn't have a laptop back then, which I can't sit and watch things on now either. She didn't give me the DVD because she thought I was going to watch it on my computer anyway. She thought I must have a DVD player because she did. I have never needed one because I have a built-in DVR, and I don't have time to watch everything I have recorded, then or now. (I figure they might not be putting The West Wing back on any of the cable channels while a certain person is in the white house. ha ha)
Sidebar - when I had the cable tier with Showtime, I wrote her about how I recorded A Star Is Born (we're big Barbra fans) in HD overnight to watch later. She asked me why I didn't just buy the DVD from Amazon (she's an Amazon addict; she thought I should order my t.v. from them - and hook it up myself and figure out how to get rid of the old one myself, etc., everything's "buy it on Amazon" when I can just go to a store for something and see it and pick it out and pay for it and bring it home) so I could watch it over and over. Well, I already paid for the Showtime; why buy the movie. And I can watch A Star Is Born over and over. It's still on the DVR. I haven't watched it again. And I still did not have a DVD player then either. Sheesh.
Actually, I have always been a very good gift giver. I found out what people wanted or needed. Or known them well enough to get them something they didn't know they needed - like when I got my parents a push button phone.
Anonymously sending a gift to a stranger who can't use it seems kind of selfish to me if all you want is gratitude. Would you thank me if I sent you an all access pass to Hillary for President? She's not running. There's no skating going on. Or a gift certificate to a restaurant that is closed? If you did thank me, you'd post it and then you and your friends would spend hours making fun of me for doing it. I guess I should have figured out who the administrator was and sent them a private message.