It's not so much figuring out our life path, cause God knows I've changed my mind about my life path several times already. But a good number of us were still developing our self-esteem back then. And judging from how my college relationship went, a relationship where both partners have extremely low self-esteem is not a very happy one.
I'm not sure where I/we going to end up, even 6 months from now. But I have the confidence now to say that I/we will figure it out and I will be all right and nobody's going to judge me and I will not be a failure. And that's not what I had at 22.