This is a discussion thread not a cheer thread however it is important that you are not judging that someone is critical or not.

That said my comments were made from reality and also because I am good friends with someone who was a pair skater and who had a body much like Lindsey and who also was made to loose weight for a partner and got anorexia so my comments are not made in critique as much as concern that is based on the sport of "pair skating". It is as once explained by the great John Nicks..."Just the way it is in pair skating"...The concerns are real and are a part of pair skating especially in general and due to physics. I agree also that the girl being strong in core and strong in lifts also plays a part of lifting etc...Please note: Having seen someone I love suffer from these issues it is a credible concern albeit not the only one or the end all be all. Just a thought and concern in regards to this sport of being a pair girl...brought up in a discussion forum.
I also gave an account of Gretchen Donalon who was one weight the first year she skated with Speroff and then totally super skinny the following year and it was scary but no one seemed to care because she had a HUGE triple twist and beautiful lines then..no one seemed to mind....
It is a real concern not a critique of her natural body. I wish she had just stayed healthy and strong as her natural frame and not lost all that weight and in stead Speroff had hit the gym full force...there are some unequal issues in pairs where this is concerned and again this is known just not talked about often.... I was just bringing that up it is valid even if you don't like it or want to discount it. I am not sure why it came out here and it was not a dis on Lindsey..it just initiated a concern I have had for while about pair girls in general...Having seen recent photos of Caitlin Y (twitter) too she is looking extremely thin! and it is just something on my mind as yes sensitive subject but one that needs to be talked about as well....
I also do not want to be accused of hating someone or denying them their natural amazing frame in which I agree they should certainly celebrate that has been my point from the beginning.
It is a concern because I do admire a true body, a healthy body, and honoring your frame is what I said. I know it is not popular, or even politically correct to bring this up...it is very sensitive...
Thank you for pointing out all that you felt was critical instead of seeing it was coming from a concern...that is your right to do so as it is mine to point out that you are very critical yourself...
A cheer thread would be a positive thing to do for this team as well because it would be good to focus only on the positive there. Some comments are what people feel and sharing thoughts, concerns, and yes even thoughts in a discussion thread is what it is about. To quote John Nicks again "If you can't stand the heat..." when I read horrible negative comments I think about D/C I was a little shocked but was told "That is FSU"..sharing thoughts in a discussion thread even if it is not your view is what gives this forum spice and difference....that said I am hoping with your smiley faces and joking what did you say? "tongue and cheek comments" you are willing to see the other side in this discussion and something that holds merit even if it is not your view point.
There are a number of critical comments (and insinuations) and "CONCERNS and well wishes."..in this thread made in regard to Lindsay and to her body but also of their potential possibilities as a team....:None of the comments were out to get her? but were reality of the way people saw things and that is not derogatory. This is a judgmental sport though...you go out you skate you are judged your body, your outfit, your style, your everything...so when people are commenting...it is subjective...respect that. It is hard I know...I have had to do it many times reading these forums about D/C whom I like and other teams I find really wonderful that someone including you has not found wonderful. It does inspire a discussion and that can be a good thing.
On a positive note, I think it's wise to:
Love the body God gave you, and make it shine! Work it! Be the best you can be with what you've got! Good affirmations not only for all young impressionable females but for everyone made to feel lesser than about their bodies and/ or abilities.
You my fellow poster... have been guilty of not doing this in some posts I have read. Depending on the team we are talking about. I agree with your comments so if she changes her frame in anyway it will break my heart I love this and hope it is the only thing she is thinking regardless of what anyone may say or ask of her....unfortunately John Nicks words are ringing in my head..as well as any other coach that has made a pair skater stand on a scale (which I understand was and is common practice) ..I have heard pair boys say that because a girl gained two pounds he could not lift her??? that is so ludicrous (sorry guys get in the gym!) but I realize many say it is just a life of a pair girl. I know it is sensitive subject but I am for one sick of seeing girls especially being targeted in this department and one year come out with a beautiful God given body and the next year be looking like they have not eaten in years...that should be outlawed! That is my true opinion....That maybe is a whole other thread....so instead let us concentrate on some other issues...
There are other issues that were brought up in this forum but all teams have issues and challenges, also beauty in their own right and I hope it works out for her and for Brubaker.
Does anyone have any idea at all???
????? What the issues she had with Mark who is such an easy going guy??? that she could not work out does anyone know the answer??? It seems other pairs change partners for these reasons and they get roasted! and I mean roasted but because it is Brubaker it is all good..still curious though...
BTW, I’m all for thoughtful discussions.
