How does this help Make a Wish that probably wants confidentiality. i.e they may have situations like this all the time where celebrities are willing to work with them, if their schedules allow it. And may not be so willing to work with them, if every time they say no, its going to be splashed over the internet.Why? She only mentioned facts and her child's disappointment. She didn't make any accusations. Why should she care about Ina Garten's PR, exactly?
She was being selfish. I can't believe I'm defending celebrities but they probably get tons of charity requests and if they said yes to everyone, probably wouldn't have time for anything else. So they have probably learned to accept what they can feasibly do, and say no to the rest. No one deserves to be publically slammed for not being able to do every good thing they are given an opportunity to do.