It was on country music radio in the late '80s when I was a kid. I thought it was by Becky Hobbs, but looking at her CDs online, no. Anyway, the only google reference I get is another lady being driven crazy because she can't remember either! The answer she got was that an Australian artist recorded the song, but in '95. I wasn't listening to country radio by that time... I'm positive that there was a video and it was played on TNN. I can only get the writer's name: Lisa Ferris.
Any help would be really appreciated! Thanks!!