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    Quote Originally Posted by PDilemma View Post
    My SiL posts very personal things on her FB wall. Then they appear in the news feeds of about 400 people in town. Then she gets dreadfully upset that "everyone always knows (her) business".

    I think some people just don't entirely comprehend that posting something on a Facebook wall means people can read it.
    I really think that that is the case for some people.

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    You can hide your 'interests' now. I just went through my privacy settings again earlier this evening, and discovered I could now limit interests and hometown to just friends.
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    my cousin posted this on her status, although I think that it is inaccurate

    There's a site called spokeo.com and it's an online phone book that has pictures that you have posted on facebook, home phone number, credit score, profession, home value, income , # of children, profession, age, Remove yourself by the Privacy button on the bottom right on their website. SHARE THIS!!! CUT, PASTE AND REPOST.
    However, when I searched for my name, the information that is listed is inaccurate and could not have been gotten from my facebook page for several reasons. It probably could have been obtained from census records and some generalizations made from age/gender, etc.

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    Quote Originally Posted by numbers123 View Post
    my cousin posted this on her status, although I think that it is inaccurate.

    However, when I searched for my name, the information that is listed is inaccurate and could not have been gotten from my facebook page for several reasons. It probably could have been obtained from census records and some generalizations made from age/gender, etc.
    A warning about Spokeo--if you want them to remove your record, they will. But before you ask, register a completely new dummy email account and use that, because they post your email address and will not delete it. If you use an existing email address, they use that to search the internet and come up with other connections. You can't get any of that removed, either.

    I can tell from what's there that they use a lot of info from things like magazine subscriptions and surveys, as well as sources like phone books and the census. They had me listed as a machinist living in poverty in a house worth two million dollars , which sounds like the sort of thing my husband puts on survey forms.

    I still had the record removed because they had pictures of my house linked there. You have to pay to get things like addresses and credit ratings from profiles. They do have Facebook profile pictures there, because they had one of my daughter up before I had it removed, although they didn't have mine.
    "The secret to creativity is knowing how to hide your sources."-- Albert Einstein.

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    That site thinks I live in the house I haven't lived in since 2002-where I lived with my mom before she died. The site seems to take info from everywhere and allow access to whomever will pay. They do not have my Facebook pictures. Just my picture I use on my Yahoo email.

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    I gave up on Facebook ages ago. As skating is my main circle, and particularly as a skating judge, I don't want every child at the rink to join me up as a friend. And the skating world is so gossipy, I don't care to know what is going on with others or for everyone to know what I am doing. Plus there are certain people I just don't want much to do with unless I absolutely have to. I would much rather keep my distance.

    If I have to waste time on the internet, people here on FSU are much more fun and interesting.
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    Spokeo could not find me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by vesperholly View Post
    Spokeo could not find me.
    It found 110 of me. All of them in the US, so none actually me.

    My email search found lots of stuff, all very old and not all mine. It didn't find my facebook page

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    Quote Originally Posted by vesperholly View Post
    Spokeo could not find me.
    Nor me, but found my email address It also claims to have found a blog, which isn't possible because I've never had one, several social networking sites (but I'm only on facebook), has validated my email address and has my country right...but not my city. I'm as to how they got even that much.

    Is that site legal? It's far more to me than facebook!
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    Quote Originally Posted by *Jen* View Post
    Nor me, but found my email address It also claims to have found a blog, which isn't possible because I've never had one, several social networking sites (but I'm only on facebook), has validated my email address and has my country right...but not my city. I'm as to how they got even that much.

    Is that site legal? It's far more to me than facebook!
    They have my email addresses as well. As an above post said, if I have to create a dummy email to ask them to remove my name (which is not found when I type that in), how can I get them to remove the email addresses I actually use?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Stormy View Post
    I do think Facebook has privacy issues, but it's up to people to learn how to use the privacy settings and be responsible using Facebook. I'm always amazed at what people share and post on Facebook and how they leave everything open for anyone to see. I have all my privacy settings set to the highest level, you can't search for me on Facebook, or have my Facebook profile be shown in search engines. I don't add a zillion games or apps that share all my information. I use it as responsibly as it allows me to.
    It's still going to share your info with a huge number of companies that pay them.

    I am praying the open source alternative that is currently developed is going to take off.

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    Quote Originally Posted by stanhope View Post
    They have my email addresses as well. As an above post said, if I have to create a dummy email to ask them to remove my name (which is not found when I type that in), how can I get them to remove the email addresses I actually use?
    They do not remove email addresses, period. They refuse. What they will do, however, is mark any email address from which they receive mail as CONFIRMED. I think that is actually one of their prime money makers--that they can sell spammers confirmed email addresses, often attached to complete, if not entirely accurate, profiles.
    "The secret to creativity is knowing how to hide your sources."-- Albert Einstein.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Desperado View Post
    I closed my FB account eight months ago after being on for two years. I never used third party apps because I didn't want to share my info with total unknowns, add high privacy settings and a very small picture of myself that no one could recognize.

    However, he straw that broke it for me was when I realized that they kept all the email addresses in my Outlook contacts list after I did a search for friends through my contacts when I first opened the account.

    I found out because I got a "so and so" is now on FB, do you want to friend him? He was an out of town friend and we had no FB friends in common so it took me a while to figure out how they linked us together.

    I realized then that I had offered them addresses of people that might never have wanted FB to "own" their information. And they kept it for TWO YEARS in their database, they could keep it forever and we would never know what they did with it.

    I had also heard that the copyright of any picture you post automatically reverts to Facebook and I didn't appreciate this at all either.
    I offered up my email information when I first opened my FB account and I noticed I was getting add as friend suggestions from people that I recognized but weren't yet mutual friends of other current FB friends. The only way I figured FB was getting the email addresses was from my actual emails. Mass emails have lots of mutual acquaintances.

    I just happened to notice one acquaintance in particular because I thought one friend had decided she was not going to have anything to do with this one person and then here she was FB friends but then I saw this person was new to FB and didn't even have any friends yet, so I wondered why I was getting the suggestion.

    I don't mess around with cocktail, Jane Austen, or purse applications anymore.

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    I never let Facebook have my email contact list. But my old landlord did, I'm guessing, because they were one of the friend suggestions I had one day. Completely freaked me out until someone reminded me of teh contact list option.

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    Because of the recent articles and this thread, but really because I should never have signed up in the first place, I've at least deleted all photos of myself just today. My privacy has always been up the wazoo, and I've actually never offered up my real name, birthday, phone number, address, etc. I do regret, however, searching for possible contacts by entering my email address and friggin' password. Of COURSE they'll totally store it and eventually someone will hack into it! Ugh! I should go change all my passwords now anyway.

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    Assuming a person is not doing anything incriminating or professionally embarassing, wouldn't having a clearly authentic presence on the internet be protection against someone impersonating you?

    I have a paid email service I use for anything related to secure transactions, and a free internet email that I use for Facebook, forums, etc.

    I just don't see where the personal risk comes into it. People who know me already are aware of where I live, and who my family is, and what my interests are. Since they are the ones who are exponentially more likely to harm me than random strangers, facebooking doesn't really make life more dangerous.

    The copyright of content thing I would think is necessary, since this is Facebook's website they need to be able to have immediate control of inappropriate content. They aren't really interested in pictures of my grandchild, or my son's soccer game, except that it makes my friends stay on their website for a few clicks.
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    I actually love posting my pictures on facebook.

    And I even like looking through my friend's pictures, particularly their vacation pictures.

    I have a small list of friends, just family, friends and close work people, and I really like looking through their pictures without having to listen to the vocal play by play of the entire vacation from every single day.

    I kept a running picture diary of us when we went to Van. for Olympics and I know those in my friends list enjoyed them. Tagged my daughter in them and got nice comments from her friends too.

    Love facebook! And I do so much online from different forums, groups and not to mention mega shopping, facebook is just one little bit more. Not a big deal to me.
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    I agree, Norlite! I really enjoy FB too. I have things tied down rather tightly, and keep various lists of friends, but it's my connection to people I might not otherwise keep in touch with. I've found a half-brother I'd never met, and several old friends organized a small reunion after reconnecting on FB. One just has to be smart about what gets put there, and who is allowed to see it.

    However, like Ziggy, I'm waiting to see what comes of the Diaspora project.
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    Quote Originally Posted by rjblue View Post
    Assuming a person is not doing anything incriminating or professionally embarassing, wouldn't having a clearly authentic presence on the internet be protection against someone impersonating you?
    That's actually the reason I registered myself on Facebook in the first place. I'd rather they find me than mistake me for someone else who's stuff I have no control over.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Evilynn View Post
    That's actually the reason I registered myself on Facebook in the first place. I'd rather they find me than mistake me for someone else who's stuff I have no control over.
    That's how I got on Facebook to begin with. Way back when it was only open to people with college email addresses, all of the faculty where I work were advised to put up their own Facebook pages just to keep students from putting up fakes. I put one up and never used it. Students used to go poking around on it looking for information, so I made sure there was nothing to find.

    Now that Facebook is open to anyone, the "mock my prof" problem is actually less of an issue than it used to be, so things are a little different. There are, however, some people who I would just as soon would not be able to find me all that easily--some of whom post here, or have in the past . But otherwise, I'm with rjblue; it's people who already know you that you have to worry about. Some random stalker isn't likely to pick you out on Facebook and come after you.

    That said, some articles about Facebook and privacy:

    "Mark really does believe very much in transparency and the vision of an open society and open world, and so he wants to push people that way."

    Check out Openbook

    Test Your Facebook Privacy Settings
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