Question regarding grandkids

[heckles]

the whole family kind of tiptoes around her, as she's a strong personality and very opinionated.

I think that's part of why she's been getting away with her behavior. The family has been describing her lack of respect for boundaries as a "strong personality" and her lack of consideration for others' feelings as being "very opinionated". If you're having to tiptoe around her, the issue isn't a "strong" woman.

[barbk]

Can you talk with her husband? Can he talk with her doctor? This sounds like it has gone beyond grandbaby lust and right over the edge.

I'm sorry for the baby and the mom. And you.