^except I have to say that there is an "element of neglect". When your hookups elevate to the place you have to hide them, then your children's best interests aren't being served. I know this is personal, but I know the little girl in question and have seen her facebook page (that I have posted that her dad used to talk to people using her profile) and the one thing she said she liked to do was ice skate. Do you think any of these parents, steps, bios, girlfriends, exes, hookups have ever taken this little girl skating or enrolled her in group lessons? That really broke my heart and that is why I am angered about all these cheaters. She's reaching out and everyone is too busy to care.
"awwww....shades of Janet Lynn" - Dick Button on anyone who makes more than one mistake in their program.
And my suggestions regarding what Sandra Bullock agreed to and what she didn't. My point is WE DON'T KNOW. There are plenty of women to agree to stay and be in a marriage for a mirage of reasons that some of us feel are not legitimate reasons to stay. I know some women who would turn the other way to their husband infidelities or to major other issues in their marriage because their husbands come home on time, pay the bills and/or support the household financially. I know women and men who are married and unmarried who put up with lots of stuff including infidelity within their relationships as long as the "dirty laundry" isn't aired in public.
And Newsflash: In my opinion, if you decide to get married or to be a committed relationship over time, you should assume that infidelity has a high probablity of entering into your relationship at some time. The key is how one will be able to handle it. Also, you think about how you will be able to deal with these issues that do arise.
Last edited by topaz; 03-20-2010 at 03:11 AM.
"You're in pretty good shape for the shape you are in.
- Dr. Seuss"
Good for Sandra for moving out. Don't take it, girl. There's no reason in the whole world why you should.
Btw, they had unprotected sex? How can people do that, especially when they're cheating on their spouses? And they're famous. Unwanted pregnancy, all kinds of STDs, etc. It's just unexplainable and inexcusable.
Smart of Scarlett and a sad state of things.
Gee, I'm so stupid I save myself the hassle of periodic testing by having safe sex. If only I was a blonde genius who puts myself at risk and then makes sure I get medical treatment for it after the fact.
Or are you saying she wastes everyone's time by getting tested for things she's not a risk for?
I doubt Bullock is frigid. I seem to recall some wild rumors about some work she did prior to making it big as an actress.
"Puccini cries out for spirals, but really good ones." ~ Dick Button, 1998 Worlds
No idea what the Bullock situation is.
I was responding to the Johanson situation, which does not warrant a IMHO.
Anyway, not sure how exactly his kids at home with his wife were foremost in his mind when he hooked up with the stripper. I's also disagree that a confession was "little evidence".
I certainly don't envy any kid who has to chose between those two parents.
Maybe it was emotional cheating vs. physical cheating. They're both cheating but I would think it would be easier to forgive a husband if he simply flirted with another woman as oppose to actually having sex with her.
These previous post are justification for NOT being famous or rich.