So 3 years ago (maybe 4) I purchased a dress for a wedding I was a bridesmaid in for 2 friends. Theyt broke up before they married and I have this dress sitting in my closet. (They were going to go with a black and red theme so the dress is black and red satin) http://www.love-wedding-dresses.com/outlet-satin-square-sleeveless-bridesmaid-dress-buy-p-8681.html Well he is now marrying another friend of mine and I am in their wedding. I am actually the maid of honour. I tried on the dress that I had purchased 4 years ago)to see if my friend was okay with that style of dress for me when we went bridesmaid dress shopping but she loved the dress I had on. Her wedding colour theme is tiffany blue, white, silver and black. She wants me to take the red out and put the tiffany blue in it`s place. Is this appropriate? I would love to wear that dress as the tiffany blue and the black would look stunning. I don`t talk to the groom`s ex at all and the only people who know about the dress would be a couple close friends. What do I do?