Prayers Needed

Discussion in 'Off The Beaten Track' started by lmarie086, Feb 14, 2013.

  1. lmarie086

    lmarie086 Well-Known Member

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    I thought there was a general thread for prayer requests, but I couldn't find it. So apologies if I missed it.

    I just wanted to ask for prayers for my dad; he's been sick for the last month or so, and was admitted to the hospital about two weeks ago now. We thought it was just the flu, but then it progressed to being pneumonia. Then it was double pneumonia AND an infected aortic valve. He had valve replacement surgery yesterday, which was successful, but the surgeon found that his whole heart is infected.

    We got a call from the surgeon after surgery was over that we should be prepared for the worst, on account of how bad the infection is. He said my dad is fighting hard, and I'll never be so grateful for his stubborn nature as I will be through this experience.

    I drove home from school to be here for the surgery yesterday, and I've gotten to see him a few times. He looked a lot better this morning and he was awake and responsive. But I'm just here to ask for prayers, because he really needs them. Thank you.
     
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  2. DarrellH

    DarrellH New Member

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    A prayer is lifted for your father.
     
  3. l'etoile

    l'etoile New Member

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    ((((lmarie086)))) My prayers are with him. My late-mother once had serious complications after maltreated acupuncture procedure--the infection almost got her heart-- and doctors told my family to prepare but she miraculously survived the surgery and recovered. Do believe in prayers.
     
  4. Wyliefan

    Wyliefan Well-Known Member

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    I'll be praying! Please keep us posted!
     
  5. CynicElle

    CynicElle Well-Known Member

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    Sending good thoughts to your father and you.
     
  6. Kruss

    Kruss Not Auto-Tuned

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    Prayers said!!
     
  7. Vash01

    Vash01 Fan of Julia, Elena, Anna, Liza, and Vera

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    (((Imarie)))

    So sorry to hear of this. Here are some prayers for your Dad. I hope he recovers and gains full health.
     
  8. topaz

    topaz Well-Known Member

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    I'll say a special prayer for you, your dad and your family.
     
  9. skatesindreams

    skatesindreams Well-Known Member

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    My prayers are with you, as well.
     
  10. Wiery

    Wiery Well-Known Member

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    Sending my prayers to you, your father, and your family.
     
  11. overedge

    overedge Well-Known Member

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    ((lmarie and family)) Sending my prayers as well.
     
  12. Bailey_

    Bailey_ Guest

    I will say a special prayer for your father and your family tonight. My thoughts and best wishes are with you. Hang in there and don't forget to take care of yourself during this very stressful and difficult time. God Bless.
     
  13. KCC

    KCC Active Member

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    Adding my thoughts and prayers for your father and your whole family.
     
  14. Cachoo

    Cachoo Well-Known Member

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    Praying now.
     
  15. skipaway

    skipaway Well-Known Member

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    Prayer and healing thoughts for your father.
     
  16. mikemba

    mikemba Active Member

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    I'll pray for you and your family this evening. AndI I echo what Bailey said: make sure to take care of yourself. My warmest thoughts go out to you. Peace.
     
  17. lmarie086

    lmarie086 Well-Known Member

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    Thank you all so, so much. This all really means a lot.

    We (my mom and I) went back down to the hospital this afternoon after going home for a quick cat nap. And when we got there my dad was more awake and actually talking to us-briefly of course, but it was good to hear his voice again. He's very sore, and more exhausted than he ever knew he could be, he said. A main concern right now is getting his heart rate back down-apparently it's common for about 30% of open heart surgery patients to have higher than average heart rate, and his was quite high. The nurses put him on some medicine to help bring it back down.

    The old aortic valve is being sent out for testing to the medical staff can isolate what bacteria it was exactly. That will be a big help in determining how the ensuing treatments go.

    My mom and I ran into the surgeon on our way to leave for home, and he was very frank with us. The only reason (that he could see medically) that my dad even survived the surgery is due to the strength of his heart. Because other than this horrible infection, his heart is really strong. The surgeon said my dad really shouldn't have made it through, and he believes God was in the room with him and that angels were watching over my dad, and that prayers were helping to save him. The fact that my dad made it through the night last night and is slowly starting to stabilize is good progress, but the surgeon said we still should be prepared for him to possibly not make it.

    So please, keep praying for him. And I'll make sure to take care of myself so that I can help take care of him. That's my motivation right now.
     
  18. agalisgv

    agalisgv Well-Known Member

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    Lifting your father, you, and your family up in prayer.
     
  19. kittyjake5

    kittyjake5 Well-Known Member

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    So sorry to hear about your father. Praying.
     
  20. myhoneyhoney

    myhoneyhoney Well-Known Member

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    (((lmarie086))) Sending many prayers!
     
  21. lulu

    lulu New Member

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    Praying for your dad.
     
  22. LilJen

    LilJen Well-Known Member

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    Adding my prayers to the mix. Blessings and peace to you.
     
  23. paskatefan

    paskatefan Well-Known Member

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    You've got my thoughts & prayers with you all.
     
  24. Angelskates

    Angelskates Well-Known Member

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    I just said a prayer.
     
  25. chantilly

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    A hopeful prayer for you and your family.
     
  26. Meredith

    Meredith what a glorious day!

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    Your dad, you and your family are in my prayers, Imarie086.
     
  27. ChelleC

    ChelleC Well-Known Member

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    Praying
     
  28. pp55

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    Adding my prayer.
     
  29. lmarie086

    lmarie086 Well-Known Member

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    We got a call from the med staff this morning- they will be taking the chest tube out today hopefully, because that seems to be the main source of his discomfort. They also apparently want to try to see if they can get him walk a little bit. So it'll be a hard day for him. But he's still fighting, so that's a good sign for now.

    And again, thank you all.
     
  30. Bailey_

    Bailey_ Guest

    You dad sounds like a very strong man. Still thinking of you and praying for the best.