Job with less pay

Discussion in 'Off The Beaten Track' started by Guinevere, Jan 22, 2013.

  1. cruisin

    cruisin Well-Known Member

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    Guinevere, I would be hesitant to go to a lawyer. Unless you want the job back or feel that they owe you something significant, I'd avoid that. You have an offer and promising interviews, no reason to compromise those, by getting involved in a contentious law suit. Which may yield nothing.
     
  2. Karina1974

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    Her location says Vancouver, BC.
     
  3. Rogue

    Rogue Sexy Superhero

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    It sounds like she started doing so, but not everyone has that option. Public transportation can sometimes be spotty. I used to live in a place where the bus service was only 6 times a day - 3 in the morning, 3 at night, so there wasn't a lot of options. And if you have small children and limited daycare options, it makes taking the earlier buses next to impossible.
     
  4. genevieve

    genevieve drinky typo pbp, closet hugger Staff Member

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    Guinevere, I hope you got decent severance (at least 1 wk pay for every year served), and glad you have another option you can pick up right away if you choose. Hopefully, this will end up being a positive change.
     
  5. talulabell

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    Wow... sorry to hear that, Guinevere. I just started reading this thread yesterday, and your (former) boss sounds like someone here. She's only above like 5 or 6 people, but she looses 2 or 3 every year... it's constant turnover. She's also caused former employees to sue (and win) for wrongful term... but upper management leaves her there because "she gets the job done". A friend of mine reported to her for about a year, and nearly had a breakdown. she ended up moving to another department, took a pay cut, and is sooooo much happier.

    I hope, as others have said, that you got some severance out of it, but if it really is a weight off your shoulders, then it sounds like its for the best. Good luck with your next venture.
     
  6. overedge

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    There is no harm done in talking to a lawyer and seeing what options are available.
     
  7. viennese

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    I'm sorry you're out of a job.
    But when you say you feel a great weight is off your shoulders: that's a good thing. You're free to pursue better opportunities. Meanwhile, make sure the old employer gives you all you're due - including $ for "re-training/placement" or whatever other ex-employees in your position get.
     
  8. Guinevere

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    Thanks again everyone. I got severance but its minimal. Am considering my options, but have another interview on Monday and the two I've gone on so far are very promising.

    It's funny one (ex) co-worker messaged me right after and asked me how I was doing and I said that I was fine (and I mean it, too. I really feel fine now) and that it speaks volumes when I can't look at this as a bad thing. And right now I currently help my family out financially so you'd think I'd be more upset. But that place is just so so toxic I can't feel all bad about what happened.
     
  9. cruisin

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    Based on this post, I'm happy for you. I wish that your former workplace had not been so toxic, but it appears this is a step in the right direction. I wish you great luck in finding the best job for your skills and happiness.
     
  10. Guinevere

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    So just quick update - I'm starting my new job next week!! It's the same job as I originally posted and they came up so I'm only $2000 less than before.

    And as a side note, word on the street is that my old boss got fired. Is it wrong that I'm enjoying this?
     
  11. milanessa

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    Good luck to you!
     
  12. PDilemma

    PDilemma Well-Known Member

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    I would probably buy a bottle of champagne and celebrate if I heard my last boss got fired. He is singlehandedly destroying a school in order to benefit his own coaching ambitions. And I know enough people (all but one are women which says something, I think) who also were cut from his staff that would join me. I'd probably have to get two bottles, actually.

    So...no, it is not wrong. Enjoy it!
     
  13. cruisin

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    Not wrong at all. Karma in action. Your former boss treated you badly. You did nothing to cause the firing. At least nothing active, the way you (and others) were treated could have lead to the firing. Good luck with your new job, and feel good that you'll be happier there.
     
  14. overedge

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    Congratulations, guinevere!! And yes, enjoy the news about your ex-boss :)
     
  15. A.H.Black

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    Too bad they didn't see things more clearly in the beginning and just fire your boss and promote you to her position.

    You will probably be happier in this new job anyway. Congratulations.
     
  16. Aussie Willy

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    Congratulations and well done. So happy for you, particularly after all the crap you went through.

    There is a saying "Just sit by the river bank and watch your enemies float by". In this case I think the champagne is totally appropriate and if that old boss was floating by then you are entitled to throw the empty bottle at them.
     
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  17. Wiery

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    What a great saying! :swoon:


    Congratulations, Guinevere! :)
     
  18. skatesindreams

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    All the best in your new position, Guinevere.
     
  19. danceronice

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    No, it's not. I just lost a job because I LITERALLY developed an allergy to it (they could have accommodated the medical work restriction, but as that would have meant moving me to a station I liked working and was actually good at, the boss didn't want to do that. She likes yanking employees chains and badmouthing us to each other--always wondered, if she says that about the waitstaff TO us, what does she say to them/back kitchen ABOUT us? Plus the owner only got about one paycheck out of every three right for everyone-we'd be missing hours, paid for the wrong days, missing overtime, etc. That's before the health-code violations....) And I'm now hired at a job with benefits, a dollar more an hour, and where they promote internally and like people who want to train in other departments. I am GLAD to be gone. And will NOT be sad at all when the old place either goes out of business or the health department shuts them down. Your old boss clearly had it coming and you're better off. There is NOTHING wrong with being glad about it. Karma catches up even with bad bosses.
     
  20. FiveRinger

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    I am so happy for you!! Congratulations and good luck in your new people position!!
     
  21. Cheylana

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    Congratulations, Guinevere!
     
  22. kwanfan1818

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    :cheer2: Guinevere!
     
  23. Japanfan

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    All's well that ends well. Best of luck to you Guinevere. :)
     
  24. Coco

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    So glad to hear it!
     
  25. liv

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    Congratulations on both leaving a toxic environment, getting a new job fairly quickly, and then finding out your nemesis was fired! Sweet news all around.

    I was in a similar situation. My supervisor was mercurial and I was always singled out for what I would now call abuse. It became a toxic situation and my usually robust health suffered. I left, was unemployed for a few months, and now I work for slightly less but I'm healthy and very happy things happened as they did.

    Things happen for a reason.

    I also love that quote about sitting by the river!!!