Jamie Silverstein's blog post on eating disorders: "It's not about the food..."

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  1. Sylvia

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    http://bejamie.wordpress.com/2012/01/12/its-not-about-the-food/
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  2. JJH

    JJH Well-Known Member

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    She's a brave woman. I hope her words help her healing process and reach others.
     
  3. CantALoop

    CantALoop Well-Known Member

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    She's right on when she says that for people with eating disorders, it's more than just the food - it's the emotional connections and our use of food as an outlet.

    This is the big step. I was embarrassed because I thought nobody would believe me because everyone told me I looked fine even though I didn't think that myself. It's only through the encouragement of others that I was finally able to seek counseling.
     
  4. Garden Kitty

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    Good for Jamie for being willing to speak up about her experience and share what she's gone through :respec:
     
  5. skatemommy

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    I wish her so much happiness. I hope TPTB learned from this.
     
  6. Yazmeen

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    I think this is a great thing that Jamie is doing, and I hope it is helpful. I wish her the best.

    I will also be honest and admit and that her "and there was that Olympic ice dancer thing" comment on her "About" page bothered me. I was always a bit rankled that she popped back into skating and took an Olympic berth (albeit earned) and then immediately popped back out, and I still remember her in an interview at the Olympics where she seemed rather disappointed as though she expected to get more from it, though I don't know what. It just bothered me that Morgan and Max lost out on their one Olympic chance by less than 4 points to someone who seemed to just jump back in for the Olympics and then jump back out. I don't know what her train of thought was then, she is obviously a young woman who has worked hard to overcome her demons. I just wish she would have left the flip comment about something that is a huge dream for many skaters out of it.
     
  7. Sparks

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    Morgan and Max didn't earn a spot and Jaime + Partner did. What they did after the Olympics is pretty irrelevent, IMO.
    There are many people who quit after going to the Olympics.
    IF I recall, Morgan had issues of her own to deal with anyway.
     
  8. AJ Skatefan

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    To me it doesn't matter who pops in or pops out, if they're good enough and earn the spot, good on them.
     
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  9. BittyBug

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    I'd guess it was a huge dream for her as well. However, I can certainly understand how she might be extremely conflicted about the event and the sport.

    It would appear that skating was something that she loved at one time, and she was an extraordinary talent. She and Pekarek rocketed to the top echelon during a time when that simply didn't happen in ice dance, and there were huge expectations for their future. However, as bright and as certain as their destiny appeared to be, the sport also seems to have been killing her, so she left it, most likely with many unresolved feelings (especially given the nature of eating disorders, which as she herself noted are a tool to suppress emotions).

    Had she an Pekarek continued as a team they very well may have been Olympic medalists, if not champions. But we'll never know what might have been, only what was - unfulfilled potential. So I can see how Jaime might be ambivalent about the way her Olympic experience ended up playing out in the end (if in fact she is). Just speculation, of course.
     
  10. MacMadame

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    I didn't see her comment as being flip either. I saw it as acknowledging something that was a big part of her life but that she really didn't want to talk about too much because of still unresolved feelings.
     
  11. Erin

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    I think your second sentence explains the first...Jamie had a lot of demons. I don't think she just jumped in for the Olympics and jumped back out again - more of a situation where she appeared to have things together that year, but the aftermath showed that she was still struggling through a lot of the issues.

    As for her comments on eating disorders...I absolutely agree that it's not about the food, but I'm not sure that I entirely followed everything else that she said. But I am sure it will resonate with some people and I'm glad that she's starting to speak out about it.

    (And not really on topic, but Max actually did end up going to the Olympics, just a different Olympics for a different country)
     
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  12. Garden Kitty

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    Jamie had another entry today about how casual words can sometimes have a bigger impact than anyone intends
     
  13. Twizzler

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    Not to get snarky, but M/Z had falls in the OD and FD so they kind of took themselves out of a chance for an Olympic berth. A clean M/Z would have gone- no question. The judges were never going to send NavBom, so Jamie and Ryan were the obvious selection.
     
  14. aemeraldrainc

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    When I read that, I thought that maybe she had gotten wind of this thread and was responding. Hehe. But it doesn't sound like it.
     
  15. Garden Kitty

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