I lost my beloved kitty this week

Discussion in 'Off The Beaten Track' started by Artemis@BC, Jul 29, 2011.

  1. Artemis@BC

    Artemis@BC Well-Known Member

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    It happened so fast. She'd been eating less than usual for a couple of months now, but not enough to be alarming. Then on Sunday or Monday she stopped eating altogether, and by Tuesday she could barely move. We had an appointment for the vet on Wednesday afternoon, the earliest I could get, and all Tuesday night I was pretty sure what was coming, and tried to prepare myself for it.

    Well, she made the decision herself. When I came home Wednesday afternoon to take her to the vet ... she was already gone. So much better for her that she just slipped away, and at home. And no agonizing decision for me to make. But coming home and finding her like that ... well that was just about the worst I've ever had to encounter.

    As devastated as I'm feeling right now, I'm trying hard to focus on how extremely blessed I was to have had such a wonderful creature in my life for 19 years. She was my first cat (I'd been "a dog person" previously), and she shattered any preconceptions I'd had about cats. She was so loving and affectionate, never held a grudge, and was a perfect companion. She was tiny in stature but huge in personality, and she's left an enormous void in my life.
     
  2. Finnice

    Finnice Well-Known Member

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    (((Artemis))) My condolences. Great that you had your cat 19 years.
     
  3. FigureSpins

    FigureSpins New Member

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    So sorry, Artemis. My cat's almost 18 years old and he's doing okay, but I test him now and then by making noise to see if he's really sleeping.
     
  4. KikiSashaFan

    KikiSashaFan Well-Known Member

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    {{{Artemis}}}
     
  5. beepbeep

    beepbeep Taking homeless Fabian home

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    :(
    ((Artemis))
     
  6. overedge

    overedge Well-Known Member

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    ((Artemis)) ((sweet kitty))
     
  7. Wyliefan

    Wyliefan Well-Known Member

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    I'm so sorry, Artemis.
     
  8. Allskate

    Allskate Well-Known Member

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    I'm so sorry. I recently had to put my cat down, so I know how hard it is to say goodbye to a good feline friend and come home to a catless house. :(
     
  9. soxxy

    soxxy Guest

    So sorry for your loss.
     
  10. MikiAndoFan#1

    MikiAndoFan#1 Well-Known Member

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    I'm so sorry, Artemis@BC. :(
     
  11. Angelskates

    Angelskates Well-Known Member

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    ((((((Artemis))))) Your kitty was as blessed to have you as you were to have her. I am sorry for your loss.
     
  12. BaileyCatts

    BaileyCatts Well-Known Member

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    ((((((Artemis and Kitty)))))))). I'm so sorry. :(
     
  13. genevieve

    genevieve drinky typo pbp, closet hugger Staff Member

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    (((Artemis))) I had to say goodbye to my 20-year-old cat this spring. It's rough :( Sorry for your loss.
     
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  14. BittyBug

    BittyBug Kiteless

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    I'm so sorry for your loss, Artemis. 19 years is a long time, but no matter how long we have our pets, it's never long enough. :(
     
  15. Matryeshka

    Matryeshka Well-Known Member

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  16. Aussie Willy

    Aussie Willy Well-Known Member

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    So sorry about the loss of your kitty.
     
  17. Anita18

    Anita18 Well-Known Member

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    Awww she sounded like a sweetheart. (((Artemis)))
     
  18. skipaway

    skipaway Well-Known Member

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    (((Artemis))) my sincere sympathies. I'm sure your cat had the best of all possible lives with you.
     
  19. tarotx

    tarotx Well-Known Member

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    Sorry :(
     
  20. KatieC

    KatieC Going in circles

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    I'm so terribly sorry for your loss, Artemis@BC. It hurts dreadfully to lose a friend. You'll have good memories.
     
  21. pat c

    pat c Well-Known Member

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    {{{{{{{{{artemis}}}}}}}}}
     
  22. Prancer

    Prancer Jawwalking Staff Member

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    ((((Artemis)))))).
     
  23. Holley Calmes

    Holley Calmes Well-Known Member

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    Dear Artemis...I know how you feel all too well. I lost my precious Bandit just 7 months ago, but it feels like yesterday. Treasure your memories and let yourself cry when you need to. Big hugs!
     
  24. Garden Kitty

    Garden Kitty Tranquillo

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    I'm so sorry, it's never easy to lose a loved friend. I'm glad she had a life full of love and didn't linger in pain.
     
  25. barbk

    barbk Well-Known Member

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    She sounds like she was very lucky to have you.
     
  26. birdgal

    birdgal New Member

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    So sorry for your loss. Our pets bring us so much joy.
     
  27. victorskid

    victorskid Skating supporter

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    So sorry to hear about your loss :( Losing a feline or canine family member is always difficult.
     
  28. Cachoo

    Cachoo Well-Known Member

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    ^^this^^
    the best of friends---but it is good to know she did not have to leave her home.
     
  29. mysticchic

    mysticchic Well-Known Member

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    so sorry hugs (((Artemis))))
     
  30. lmarie086

    lmarie086 Well-Known Member

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    (Artemis) I'm so sorry for your loss. :( My cat is only about 6 or 7, but I don't want to think about her ever dying. You had a wonderful friendship with her from the sounds of it, and the memories will last forever.