What do you think about a guy who that only wants to see you maybe every 3-4 weeks? Never married, no children, so no family obligations. Doesn't call a whole lot, but likes to text. When he does call, he can keep you on the phone for a good hour, so lots to talk about. This goes on for about 5 months and up to about the 4th month, when you start to have sex (this would be around the 5th actual date), and you want to see more of him, he points out red flags and blows everything out of proporation and ends the relationship. Was he just after casual sex?