BUZZFEED: Why Is The World’s Gayest Sport Stuck In The Closet?

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  1. dardar1126

    dardar1126 Well-Known Member

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    http://www.buzzfeed.com/blairbraverman/why-is-the-worlds-gayest-sport-stuck-in-the-closet

    Why Is The World’s Gayest Sport Stuck In The Closet?

    Men’s figure skating has always been caught between its public image and its conservative culture. But with anti-LGBT policies haunting the Sochi Olympics, the sport’s biggest stars are under more pressure than ever to set the record straight.

    posted on January 31, 2014 at 1:24am EST
    Blair Braverman - BuzzFeed Contributor

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  2. reese

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    I think this is an overall better article than the similar Newsweek article. Worth the read.
     
  3. IceJunkie

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    I skimmed over the article - I read the Newsweek one last night - and from what I read it was quite interesting. Nothing we didn't really know but I think it's informative for the public who thinks figure skating is the sporting equivalent of musical theatre in terms of LGBT acceptance (again I think the actual current athletes are quite accepting...it's the upper echelons of the sport, where a lot of self-hating gay and straight men are, that is pushing the sport towards what Jenny Kirk called a 1950s view of the world)
     
  4. Skittl1321

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    Okay, so I know he requested anonymity- but there cannot have been that many senior men's coaches who were former Olympians.

    This quote ("His own top skater, he tells me proudly, is “a true-true guy. The straightest they come.”) is so disturbing to me, I really want to know who said it. Has anyone figured this out before I do the legwork finding out who all the men's coaches were? It can't be describing Max Aaron or Brandon Mroz (which were my first thought, though I really don't know if they are straight or not), as Zakrajsek was not an Olympian.

    ETA: Never mind, that took me like 30 seconds. Probably Keegan Messing's coach, who is a former Olympian; though Ross Miner's wikipedia page also lists a coach who was an Olympian.
     
  5. reese

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    Or Doug Ladret?
     
  6. Skittl1321

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    I have no idea if Douglass Razzano is gay or straight- but I don't think anyone would describe his skating using the manly buzzwords. He is artistic. That's why I eliminated Doug Ladret.

    I did edit to add that it was possibly Miner's secondary coach.


    Whoever said it, man- the follow up quote about gay skaters only attracting a gay audience where straight skaters attract everyone is awful. No wonder they wanted anonymity.
     
  7. arcuel

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    I don't know why, but I can't stop laughing at this part :lol:
     
  8. gkelly

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    Great article -- thanks
     
  9. Carolla5501

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    Some of these skaters are still kids!

    They should not have to be "outed" for some political statement. I don't care if they are gay or not. I think their personal life is their business not mine. If the skater feels comfortable making a political statement about Russia that's fine, but if he/she isn't comfortable they should not be pushed by gay lobbying to "take a stand"

    I daresay that a lot of kids at their age who are not in the "World's Gayest Sport" are still working out their sexuality issues too... it's just that because they don't skate we don't care LOL!

    Not to mention, that just because you are gay does not mean you have to make your personal life public.... I could stand to know a lot less about the personal lives of a lot of public figures LOL!
     
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  10. aftershocks

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    ^^ I agree, Carolla. The majority of skaters are obviously still maturing as individuals and finding out who they are, not to mention the difficulty of trying to develop their talents and finding their identity on the ice as complete figure skaters. Actually, they shouldn't be expected to speak with authority on a host of worldly topics (but as happens to many athletes, they are often asked about off-ice current events and controversial issues). I don't think any young skater, regardless of their sexual orientation needs to discuss their intimate personal life for the sake of a movement. People should just be allowed to be who they are and express who they are in whatever way they please without being hounded by skating officials, or media, or pro-gay organizations, or anti-gay organizations.

    To a degree I do understand the attempt to write about the "closeted" gay subject in figure skating (as it does tend to arise every four years... e.g., the questions Johnny Weir was asked by media pre-Vancouver, and the heavy speculation in the press immediately after Johnny's 2006 Olympic sp, when he skated in iconic fashion and as a male to The Swan, not to mention the questions John Curry was asked many years ago). Of course, Russia's anti-gay law makes the whole topic even riper for discussion this time around. And, in figure skating after the rebellious, outspoken and inimitable Johnny Weir (along with more progressive attitudes existing culturally) quite a few skaters regardless of whether they are gay or straight, seem to feel more comfortable in their own skin and in expressing themselves creatively on the ice without fear of the former bullying by TPTB about colorful costumes and not looking macho enough.

    OTOH, I think the sport needs to own up to its own history and tradition of promoting "macho-ness" while fearing the "gay" characterization. At this point, why not simply embrace and celebrate the wonderful beauty of all who have contributed so greatly to the sport, and be more open about and inclusive of the different backgrounds and characteristics of the individuals who make up this sport, without the "winking" and protesting too much. I think it will continue to take time due to the fact that many of the people who grew up in the sport who happen to be gay are unable to embrace openness since they learned the hard way that macho pretense is very important both culturally and within the sport, even despite the fact behind-the-scenes they are quietly known and accepted to be gay without fanfare. Of course in an ideal world, that is as it should be anyway.

    Still figure skating by owning up to its closeted history as a whole and coming clean in that respect, while pointing out the variety of different backgrounds and contributions from all skaters could end up promoting the sport for all that it is and for what draws so many people to it. The joy and appeal of figure skating has not much to do with people's sexual orientation. Ultimately, I think it's the secretive, hush-hush tradition of denial that has been so prevalent in the sport that in many respects has made it difficult to fully promote the sport to a larger public. Skaters as individuals don't need to come out necessarily, as much as the sport itself needs to reflect on its history and to embrace openness and diversity.

    The reference in the article to a current skater, if he comes out, that it would have no impact on his career, is an erroneous assumption IMO. Perhaps after said skater retires, he might be more comfortable coming out, or not. Everyone is entitled to their privacy. As far as the reference to "athletic" vs "artistic" being coded "butch/femme" terms, that's true. But also, "athletic" has been used generally to refer to skaters based on how they are perceived, sometimes as being stronger technically. It can be overdone in that respect too, as Debi Thomas was often referred to as being more athletic, despite the fact she was also very creative artistically, often choreographing her own programs. Because Midori Ito had stocky legs and powerful jumps, she was labeled "athletic," and not given points for her graceful qualities and engaging presentation skills. Even early in her career, Midori was a budding artist, even if not at the level of a Janet Lynn.
     
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  11. fenway2

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    Jeremy apologized twice for what? For walking away? For the lame metaphor that he made last year? For bumping into the writer in the hall twice? For passing gas? Why did he apologize twice? I hate vague writing.
     
  12. ioana

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    Peter Johansson :confused:? I would say that's highly unlikely.
     
  13. Skittl1321

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    I don't know anything about the man, or whether or not he'd say something like that- but he meets the criteria of coach who is a former Olympian. Based on Keegan's comments in the article (though not quite in the same realm as the anonymous coach's) I highly think my first guess was the right one.

    Keegan seems to be the skater most concerned with being manly. Even with Max Aaron it seems to be more the commentators who expect him to be manly, he is trying to expand his skating to be more full.
     
  14. Fan123

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    I doubt and would hate to think it's Peter as I have partied with him and Mark Mitchell awhile back.
     
  15. ioana

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    I'm completely clueless about Burghart, but if the only choices available are him or Johansson, I'd got with him in a heartbeat.
    Johansson in his competitive days http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ivlrjZ5JtGA
     
  16. Primorskaya

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    Comments on this and on the Newsweek article are pretty telling: non skating fans reading them are astounded that the sport and its participants are either homophobic or locked firmly in the closet. They expect it to be the most gay-friendly place on earth.

    So, people at ISU, USFS and all the rest of them: the whole world thinks you're Gay Central anyway, so what the f**k are you afraid of?
     
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  17. skatesindreams

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    Why the obsessive interest in "outing" everyone mentioned; even if it is only speculation?
    What useful purpose is served?
     
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  18. Carolla5501

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    Why are you so determined to out someone?

    Why do you have to know?

    apparently the person in question wanted to remain private. Time to take your fingers off the keyboard and quit gossiping
     
  19. Andora

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    I would think the person in question didn't want to face any possible ramifications for his statements more than anything...
     
  20. immoimeme

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    Really.wtf difference does it make. Should we publicly speculate on YR sexuality? We can you know lol.

    In general, why the fck is every fcking thing so sexualized these days? Don't we have anything better to do, like save the planet?!
     
  21. ioana

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    The only 'outing' here involves figuring out who made certain comments about what mainstream audiences find appealing. And if it is Keegan's coach, at least the fact that the two of them were the only ones in the article who were willing to state that perception in so many words 'straight sells better than gay' -even anonymously in one case- is pretty telling in and of itself. You can't start to address a problem unless people are willing to admit it exists (i.e. let skaters be themselves instead of pushing 50's gender roles on them). Then again, maybe all this vagueness goes back to USFSA trying to maintain the status quo and a good way of doing it would be to make vague statements that skirt the issue.
     
  22. Skittl1321

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    Outing someone as a person to make a comment? In this thread in particular I think using the phrase "outing someone" certainly seems to take a different meaning.

    I want to know because I think the comments are rather appalling.
    People shouldn't say things they don't want to be associated with. Good rule of thumb is if you have to ask to remain anonymous, maybe you ought to rethink what you are saying. (Edit: I've thought about this, and there are times where I think people have to be very brave to make comments and do their best to stay anonymous, perhaps in politically oppressive regimes or what not. Perhaps that is what he felt he was doing. But I literally looked for less than a minute and figured out which top american skaters had former Olympians as coaches. It wasn't like he was careful about it.)
     
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  23. ioana

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    Alternatively, the author revealed too much information and inadvertently blew the anonymous cover :shuffle:
     
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    I know, it's so weird. Johnny has repeatedly talked about the homophobia in figure skating. I remember him referring to judges that are "of a different generation," to the USFS as "very conservative," and also writing in his book about how they tried to get him to stop wearing "feminine" costumes.
     
  25. Carolla5501

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    Tell you what, when you decide that your comments can be made without a made up screen name then you have the right to demand transparency.
     
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    I have lost all respect for Keegan
     
  27. VIETgrlTerifa

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    People automatically assume people are straight until proven otherwise and people here gossip all the time about who is dating who in the skating world. But when it comes to homosexuality, all of a sudden people are being "too sexual" or you simply rather not know anything about the skater.

    I think that perpetuates the problem of shaming sexuality and to a deeper extent, shaming homosexuality…as if it needs to be something to hide. About the comment about people needing to not be obsessed with this and focusing on "saving the world"…well, one can do both (and to some people, solving this anti-gay rhetoric is "saving the world" within their communities). Also, one can make a similarly dismissive comment about about a bunch of posters spending a great amount of time obsessing about figure skating.

    I understand many skaters are afraid for a great number of reasons, but I just don't like a lot of these attitudes about not expressing sexuality or being critical of it when it is expressed all the time with heterosexual skaters.
     
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  28. bronwynsings

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    I'm proud of Jeremy Abbott for taking a stance, though. :D
     
  29. Andora

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    Speculate away. But acknowledging someone's sexuality doesn't make it sexualised. If someone mentions a spouse or significant other in passing, is that "so sexualised"? No. But once homosexuality comes in to play it is? That doesn't make sense...

    Absolutely.
     
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  30. RFOS

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    Except for male figure skaters :shuffle: (and some other exceptions)

    The double standard is unfortunate. But it also interests me that discussing or openly being in a relationship is considered "being sexual." If straight skaters were actually acting sexually or talking directly about sex I think that would be frowned upon too. A lot of assumptions and generalizations are made and the fact that people who are close with someone in what seems to be or is described in a romantic way are automatically having sex (at least if they're above a certain age, below which people would be made very uncomfortable by the thought that they might be) is one that seems to bother few people but does bother me. There are asexual people in the world and some of them want romantic relationships too, but it seems that they and bisexual people are often rendered almost completely invisible.