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Veronika
10-18-2011, 05:36 PM
If you are still in love with your ex-bf, it's probably not a good idea to start dating until you've moved on. JMHO, of course. :shuffle:

Anita18
10-18-2011, 07:51 PM
Update: I put a profile on match.com as you could do this for free, as well as search for free. I stated that I was looking for a guy to hang out with as friends first, and then go from there. Out of hundreds of guys I looked at, one really caught my attention. We had alot in common, and I really wanted to meet this guy. I got 3 free days if I joined match. I did, and had about a dozen emails from guys. I was not interested in any of them. But, the guy I liked winked at me so we shared a few emails. However, the last email totally turned me off. He said I believe you can tell alot from a person, by the underwear that they wear, so what do you wear?
That still doesn't beat the guy who messaged me on Lavalife with "How are your feet?"

Yes, even before a "hi there." :rofl: If guys with foot fetishes are THIS easy to pick out...


If you are still in love with your ex-bf, it's probably not a good idea to start dating until you've moved on. JMHO, of course. :shuffle:
I agree, it won't be fair to you or any new guys. It would just add unnecessary drama and waste time for both of you.

Ice Queen
10-19-2011, 03:24 PM
Veronika & Anita18, I completely agree with you both. Thank you for your help.

MacMadame
10-19-2011, 09:12 PM
I'm not conservative at all, and I found that question inappropriate too :lol: Good riddance to him!
I'm not conservative either and I wouldn't have answered it.

I think it shows that he was interested in more than friendship though... which is typical of those dating sites. That's why they call them dating sites and not friendship sites!

If you are lonely, IceQueen, see if there is a Meet Up in your area. While you will still find people who are interested in dating, there will be a lot more only interested in friendship. Plus, when you are seeing people face to face, it's a lot harder to do things like ask them what kind of underwear they wear!

UMBS Go Blue
10-19-2011, 09:35 PM
Talking about which, looks like all you ladies with smartphones can join in (http://www.guardian.co.uk/technology/2011/sep/12/blendr-straight-dating-app-grindr) on the "fun" (http://www.forbes.com/sites/kashmirhill/2011/09/09/blendr-a-smartphone-app-to-broadcast-im-single-and-looking/) - previously the exclusive domain of michaelfsfan (http://www.smugmug.com/gallery/11934335_bX9YT#846311952_WF6vh). :saint:

Ice Queen
10-19-2011, 09:56 PM
MacMadame, I will check into other ways of meeting people. Thank you for the advice.