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05-01-2010, 04:37 PM
Because the young guy has to deal with a wrinkled, sagging Va-Jay-jay ?
Would you have "joked" the same way about a 43-year old guy's penis? Me thinks not.

05-02-2010, 12:32 AM
Why is it gross?

The word 'gross' infers that the older partner is icky or not attractive. But that needn't be the case necessarily.

One of the concerns people have with old men-young women is the power imbalance. You have old men with scads of money and lots of power and status marrying young beautiful women who have an illusion of power. Such relationships have the potential for an abuse of power or a powerful imbalance. And you also have women looking for a father figure, which is another set-up for a power imbalance.

Of course this isn't the case for all old male/young female relationships. There can be genuine love and affection in a relationship with a huge age gap.

And a 10-15 year isn't really so much of a gap when mature people are involved - it is different for a 30 year old to partner with a 45 year old than for a 18 year old to partner with a 33 year old.

05-02-2010, 03:10 AM
She can train him! Wheee!!!!!